The Feast

Our Ethiopian Feast-Before


Our Ethiopian Feast-After

We came together to feast, me and a former cop and soldier now mother and multiple business owner; an office manager and former divorced mother of three big boys, now a married mom of four; a former entrepreneur turned married homeschooling mom of six; a rapper who showcased skills on 106 and Park who now sparks the spiritual into the secular; and an engineer married to an engineer and mom of a boy and girl. We came together to feast, all ministry leaders and me the top ministry leader leading them into something different, something good, and they ate it up, this, my favorite, Ethiopian food that none had tried and one didn’t like after having the same four times before.

Throwing Down

We feasted on something different, food never touching their palates, food transforming their palates into something new. We, a table of used to be’s and wanna be’s now wanting to be whatever Jesus wants us to be and we are open. We are willing to consume the feast He has for us, no matter how different or how many times we did or didn’t like it, we will try, knowing it could even be yummy like our Ethiopian meal.

Standing: Taivia; Nicole, Charyse and Chevelle; Seated: Helena & Me

Copyright 2010 by Rhonda J. Smith

Merry Christmas: Have Fun in Christ

Tomorrow I will look at a tree and see what’s meant so much to me for years: a heaping of hedonism. But that tomorrow will become my yesterday because of how I’ve labored with creating my greatest Christmas gift ever from God to me and from me to you: “The 39 Days of Christmas.” For three months I have been consumed with Christ, reflecting on His biblical presence before His physical presence on earth. And now this blog series is complete and wholly ready for you to use this Christmas or next or any other time that you need to remember that Jesus is the reason for Christmas and why we even exist. I have compiled the beginnings of each post here for you to sing to the tune of “The 12 Days of Christmas.”* You can also click select links to read posts from this series.

Have a Merry Christmas. I hope you enjoy singing this and have fun in Jesus Christ.

On the 1st day of Christmas my true love gave to me a man to usher Him in (Malachi 3:1).
On the 2nd day of Christmas my true love gave to me a way to balance my dualities (Zechariah 9:9-10).
On the 3rd day of Christmas my true love gave to me a vision of a better temple (Haggai 2:9).
On the 4th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a look at His judgment and His peace (Zephaniah 1:2-7).
On the 5th day of Christmas my true love gave to me feet like hinds’ feet (Habakkuk 3:19).
On the 6th day of Christmas my true love gave to me His peace in the midst of wrath (Nahum 1:2-8).
On the 7th day of Christmas my true love gave to me greatness as a baby (Micah 5:2).
On the 8th day of Christmas my true love gave to me an offer to repent after day three (Jonah 1:17 & 3).
On the 9th day of Christmas my true love gave to me, three reasons to always believe Him (Obadiah 15-21).
On the 10th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a God who gets the job done (Amos 9:11-15).
On the 11th day of Christmas my true love gave to me His word to sustain me (Acts 2:37-38).
On the 12th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a savior who purchased me (Hosea 3).
On the 13th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a vision of destroyed kingdoms (Daniel 2:34-35).
On the 14th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a picture of reigning reality (Ezekiel 21:27).
On the 15th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a God who will weep over me (Jeremiah 3:20-22).
On the 16th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a righteous, beyond super King (Jeremiah 23:1-6).
On the 17th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a face to change my reality (Isaiah 52:14).
On the 18th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a love that would ever be true (Song of Solomon 7:10).
On the 19th day of Christmas my true love gave to me the one shepherd who could guide me (Ecclesiastes 12:11).
On the 20th day of Christmas my true love gave to me, wisdom, the key to all life (Proverbs 8:35).
On the 21st day of Christmas my true love gave to me a chilling prophecy (Psalm 22:16 & 18).
On the 22nd day of Christmas my true love gave to me a God who redeems from tragedy (Job 19:25).
On the 23rd day of Christmas my true love gave to me a God who gave up comfort for me (Esther 4:11).
On the 24th day of Christmas my true love gave to me the power to build anew (Nehemiah 2).
On the 25th day of Christmas my true love gave to me His faithfulness and restoration too (Ezra 10:10).
On the 26th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a temple for his honor and glory (2 Chronicles 2:1).
On the 27th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a word for those who feel defeated (1 Chronicles 4:1)
On the 28th day of Christmas my true love gave to me, hope, grace and life to settle me (2 Kings 4:3-7).
On the 29th day of Christmas my true love gave to me wisdom to help me daily (1 Kings 3).
On the 30th day of Christmas my true love gave to me, a glimpse of eternity (2 Samuel 7).
On the 31st day of Christmas my true love gave to me, a prophet, priest and a king (1 Samuel 7).
On the 32nd day of Christmas my true love gave to me a savior fit to redeem even me (Ruth 4-8-9).
On the 33rd day of Christmas my true love gave to me a ruler as a savior and king (Judges 4:4).
On the 34th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a leader with the ultimate guarantee (Joshua 3).
On the 35th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a prophet sent to guide me (Deuteronomy 18:15).
On the 36th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a promise that he’d always be with me (Numbers 14:14).
On the 37th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a burnt offering for all of my sins (Leviticus 1:1-17).
On the 38th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a guide out of my slavery (Exodus 3:2-10).
On the 39th day of Christmas my true love gave to me a promise of Satan’s defeat (Genesis 3:15).

The difference with my “The 39 Days of Christmas” is that each day gives you a singular gift—Jesus Christ—so when you sing about the gifts from days 2-39 you announce the singular gift, i.e., On the 3rd day of Christmas my true love gave to me a vision of a better temple, a way to balance my dualities and a man to usher Him in.

Copyright 2010 by Rhonda J. Smith

Care-less Christians-The 1st Day of Christmas

On the 1st day of Christmas my true love gave to me a man to usher Him in (Malachi 3:1).

A sister told me she heard financial guru Dave Ramsey say this: “Don’t try to keep up with the Joneses. They’re actually broke.” In this season a lot of us needed to hear that, like months ago. We skipped paying bills, maybe worked some overtime, borrowed some cash or charged our cards to the limit to buy our children Christmas toys so they wouldn’t feel left out, so we wouldn’t feel left out, so we could keep up with the Joneses. We forget that as Christians, we were never meant to fit in, to be like everyone else, and that includes how we operate during the Christmas season.

Behold, I send my messenger, and he will prepare the way before me. And the Lord whom you seek will suddenly come to his temple; and the messenger of the covenant in whom you delight, behold, he is coming, says the LORD of hosts.—Malachi 3:1

Here in Malachi God the Father tells of the role of John the Baptist as the herald of the Lord Jesus. In Matthew we see John in action and as a man who wasn’t trying to fit in and didn’t care a bit what people thought about him.

In those days John the Baptist came preaching in the wilderness of Judea,” Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” For this is he who was spoken of by the prophet Isaiah when he said, “The voice of one crying in the wilderness: ‘Prepare the way of the Lord; make his paths straight.'” Now John wore a garment of camel’s hair and a leather belt around his waist, and his food was locusts and wild honey. Then Jerusalem and all Judea and all the region about the Jordan were going out to him, and they were baptized by him in the river Jordan, confessing their sins. But when he saw many of the Pharisees and Sadducees coming to his baptism, he said to them, “You brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the wrath to come? Bear fruit in keeping with repentance.—Matthew 3:1-8

  • John preached in an unconventional place.
  • He was in the wilderness, but those dry in spirit and wet with curiosity came to him.

  • John preached to unconvinced people.
  • He didn’t try to be like the religious leaders but challenged the Pharisees and Sadducees not to be hypocrites.

  • John wore unusual clothes.
  • Camel’s hair was different than the common clothes of linen, flax and wool.

  • John ate strange food.
  • I suppose that when you are in the wilderness, follow a Nazarite diet, and your main mission is to tell people about the coming of Jesus, insects and sweetener are prime food choices.

    John was a minimalist so he could focus on the maximum message of the coming of Christ. This is our message: to minimize things that gratify our flesh so we give fully to ministering the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ. He came. He died. He rose again. He did it for all and will be with and in all who accept His sacrifice and receive Him as Savior and Lord. This is what we are to give at Christmas, caring less about what’s under the Joneses’ tree and more about who may not be in their hearts.

    Copyright 2010 by Rhonda J. Smith

    Dueling Dualities-The 2nd Day of Christmas

    On the second day of Christmas my true love gave to me the remedy for dealing with dualities (Zechariah 9:2-10).

    Do you struggle in duality? I’m not necessarily talking about with being bipolar, though I know some of us have that struggle, but I mean the daily balance of walking in roles that are quite the opposite in their space or function: leader at work-servant at home; cheerful cheerleader-strict disciplinarian; husband’s lover-children’s mother. For me, these roles are sometimes like day and night, hot and cold, dead and alive, good and bad. Some days I flow with cheering the children on and fumble with disciplining them. Other days I serve my family well and forget about ministry meetings. And it’s hard to get turned on when I can’t turn off my mommy mode. Though I know these seemingly polar opposites can exist in the same space, can receive my proper attention, I falter when I fail to continually look to Jesus as my perfect example.

    Throughout Zechariah, Jesus is seen in His seemingly opposite roles of servant and king and man and god. He was the humble king who before was pierced as a man then rose with all power in His hands because He is God (Zechariah 9:9-10, 12:10 and Hebrews 1:3). He navigated these roles by remembering who He served, why He served and what He needed to serve.

  • He served God the Father—“Jesus saith unto them, ‘My meat is to do the will of him that sent me, and to finish his work’” (John 4:34).
  • He served to reconcile man to God—Jesus said, “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have [it] more abundantly” (John 10:10). Read also 2 Corinthians 5:21.
  • He needed the word of God and prayer—“Jesus said unto him, ‘It is written again, Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God’” (Matthew 4:7).
  • Yeah, we were created in God’s image and have been given the ability to operate in our dualities by remembering we serve God; that our actions help reconcile our families and others to God; and that we can serve by standing on God’s word and praying. God created our dualities and because He did and empowers us to operate in them, I know I don’t have to duel with navigating them but only look to Him for help.

    God’s Temple-The 3rd Day of Christmas

    “’The glory of this latter temple shall be greater than the former,’ says the LORD of hosts. ‘And in this place I will give peace,’ says the LORD of hosts” (Haggai 2:9).

    Beyond majestic is what this latter temple will be, filled with gold and silver from God and whatever else He believes will make it glorious, including the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. Some commentators believe this temple speaks about the millennial temple, the one in which Jesus will reign after His second coming. Others believe it refers to the one during Jesus’ first time on earth, the temple Herod the Great took great lengths to expand and beautify. Whichever temple, one thing is sure: with Jesus’ presence there is peace and that’s where I want to be.

    So right here on earth, before Christ’s earthly reign in a building made with hands, I will work to glorify my temple, my God–built and –housed body—to allow Jesus’ peace to pass in it. This body, Christ’s present earthly dwelling place, is a little marred, suffering from external and internal strife, not all from my making but some I surely can shake. So I seek to rid myself of too much yeast and sugar that depress my immune system, causing acne and aches and breaks in my soul that always conceal God’s glory, if only to me. I plan to step on my stepper and dance my African dances to move this body, God’s body, into something more healthy, more physically beautiful.

    As Christmas approaches, with all its parties and pleasant pastries and filling foods, I hope we all remember God’s bodies and serve them modestly so God’s glory shines mightily and His peace prevails through every limb. May the glory of our latter temple be greater than the former, this is my prayer.

    Copyright 2010 by Rhonda J. Smith