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Dueling Dualities-The 2nd Day of Christmas

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On the second day of Christmas my true love gave to me the remedy for dealing with dualities (Zechariah 9:2-10).

Do you struggle in duality? I’m not necessarily talking about with being bipolar, though I know some of us have that struggle, but I mean the daily balance of walking in roles that are quite the opposite in their space or function: leader at work-servant at home; cheerful cheerleader-strict disciplinarian; husband’s lover-children’s mother. For me, these roles are sometimes like day and night, hot and cold, dead and alive, good and bad. Some days I flow with cheering the children on and fumble with disciplining them. Other days I serve my family well and forget about ministry meetings. And it’s hard to get turned on when I can’t turn off my mommy mode. Though I know these seemingly polar opposites can exist in the same space, can receive my proper attention, I falter when I fail to continually look to Jesus as my perfect example.

Throughout Zechariah, Jesus is seen in His seemingly opposite roles of servant and king and man and god. He was the humble king who before was pierced as a man then rose with all power in His hands because He is God (Zechariah 9:9-10, 12:10 and Hebrews 1:3). He navigated these roles by remembering who He served, why He served and what He needed to serve.

  • He served God the Father—“Jesus saith unto them, ‘My meat is to do the will of him that sent me, and to finish his work’” (John 4:34).
  • He served to reconcile man to God—Jesus said, “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have [it] more abundantly” (John 10:10). Read also 2 Corinthians 5:21.
  • He needed the word of God and prayer—“Jesus said unto him, ‘It is written again, Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God’” (Matthew 4:7).

    • Yeah, we were created in God’s image and have been given the ability to operate in our dualities by remembering we serve God; that our actions help reconcile our families and others to God; and that we can serve by standing on God’s word and praying. God created our dualities and because He did and empowers us to operate in them, I know I don’t have to duel with navigating them but only look to Him for help.