Friday Feature: Food’s Higher Purpose

Food has a higher purpose than for pleasure. I know some of you don’t want to hear that, especially those of you who say, “But I love food.” It’s okay to love food, but how do we allow our love for food to line up with the word of God? Look at the scripture where food is discussed and see what the purposes were:

for meat (to curb hunger)—Gen. 9:3
for sacrifice—Exodus 30:34
for celebration—Genesis 21:8
for worship—Genesis 29:18
for memorial—Exodus 12:14
for hospitality—Genesis 18:1-8
for dedication—Daniel 1:8-16
for bribery (Genesis 25:30-34)
for pleasure—(1 Samuel 2:12-17, 4:18)

When you read the above scriptures, notice there was immoral behavior and gluttony the times food was used for pleasure apart from God’s sanctioning. God gave us food to eat and taste buds for pleasure, but we have to look to God to tell us how to use our food. As far as I can see, God mostly sanctioned food to sustain and honor life. Emotional masking, boredom, and gluttonous pleasure are things God wouldn’t have us engage in so surely we can’t use food toward these ends. When we do (which I’m sure we all have done at one time or another), we are guilty of elevating food to a higher status than what God intends.

Once we recognize that food has a higher purpose, we can then redefine our relationship with it. Food is neither our friend nor our enemy. It is a tool God gave us to master. Food is our slave and we have to master it. We humans have to understand that God gave us dominion, which means we have charge over anything non-human, and that includes food. We can control, must control, food for our health and not allow food to control us. We are the lord of food, but in order for us to operate like we are lord requires that we submit our lordship to the lordship of our Master. He will tell us what to eat, when to eat, how much to eat, where to eat, and with whom to eat. He will tell us when our food program needs to change and how to change it. As we seek God to control this area of our life, our schedules, taste buds, emotions or boredom will have less influence over how we eat. Like with anything in life, God will direct our path regarding food. He wants us to have the best food for our bodies so our bodies work best in the body of Christ and for the Kingdom of God. Truly, having an ultimate working body for the body of Christ and God’s Kingdom is a higher purpose for food. I believe when we seek to grasp that food has a higher purpose than for pleasure, we will see an increase in service to our Lord, better attitudes about and while working with others, and an increase in the spirit of wisdom and revelation for our lives, the lives of others and God’s greater plans. And I believe that these are but a few of the divine impartations we will experience. With Jesus as Lord of ALL of our life, just imagine all the great wonders we will see.

How would you define your relationship to food? How do you believe you would be an increased benefit to the body of Christ and the Kingdom of God with Jesus being the ultimate Lord over food in your life?

Homeschooling and Other Foolish Parental Notions

What Do You Think? Wednesday

I never thought the challenges would come like this: mostly from family and friends who don’t understand my evolution and want me to be the woman they knew me to be. I was fierce and fought battles that I now know were not my own; I took on assignments and roles and a demeanor that God never meant for me. These shaped my strong black woman mantle that I later laid at God’s feet to pick up the charge He had for me. Marry who I say marry; vote for who I say vote for; parent the way I say parent. Follow me the way I say follow me. But my loved ones’ responses to my choices should not be a shock to me. Jesus’ family didn’t believe He was the Messiah and folks in His hometown dishonored Him (Mark 6:1-4). So if that happened to Jesus, surely I should expect the same to happen to me. And if my loved ones challenge (persecute in some cases) me, even if the Bible didn’t say so I should expect the world to do the same (John 15:20). My job is to shrug off the criticism, respond if I’m led and do so in the manner Jesus would have me to. This is not always easy. I’m clear about my ministry calling, to the world and to my family, and this clarity gives me the direction I need to accomplish my calling. Trying to explain, defend even, my choices beyond what God tells me to, takes time and energy away from fulfilling my calling and can lead me back to my strong black woman fierce talking ways. I must remember that the only one who needs to understand what God has called me to do is me.

For who knows a person’s thoughts except the spirit of that person, which is in him? So also no one comprehends the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. Now we have received not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, that we might understand the things freely given us by God. And we impart this in words not taught by human wisdom but taught by the Spirit, interpreting spiritual truths to those who are spiritual. The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned. The spiritual person judges all things, but is himself to be judged by no one. “For who has understood the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?” But we have the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians 2:11-16).

Though these verses compare the spirit of the world to God’s Spirit, which all believers in Christ have, the spirit of the world can apply to believers who the Spirit hasn’t spoken to about our calling. Their response to us may be just like someone who doesn’t understand something spiritual; they may follow the ways of the world and may use the mind of the world when challenging us. So we must know what God is saying to us. We must ask, believe and walk out what He says (James 1:5-8). All this pondering came about today as I reflected on a challenge from my mom to participate in a sorority event, a friend questioning the depth of one of my analyses and a New York Times editorial on homeschooling, which is how my husband and I educate our children. Republican Presidential Candidate Rick Santorum and his wife’s decision to home educate their children was the author’s launching pad; the story was bigger than home schooling, though, and challenged the effects of parents’ choices to in any way isolate their children. Another Times article outright said home schooling “is shortsighted and cruel” and “misguided foolishness,” comparing it to “home dentistry.”

In this world, you have to know who God has called you to be and what He has called you to do. If not, you will doubt what you heard and be a double-minded woman, unstable in ALL your ways (James 1:6-8). We are called to stability and can stay focused with God’s help (2 Timothy 1:7; John 15:4-7).

For those of you who have learned to shrug off comments and respond to others according to the Spirit, how did you come to that point? You can read the New York Times articles here and here and, please, tell me what you think. Also, check out my best friend Carla Yarbrough’s blog post Purpose and Persecution and Kim Cash Tate’s posts Strategic Plan and D6 Parenting and chime in on those too!

Release the Secret, Release the Pain

There are deep dark secrets no one wants to talk about. We’ve all had them and may have believed sharing was forbidden. Shame says we are to blame. Peace takes a back seat to shame and has us wearing our feelings on soul’s edge, always there ready to direct us, keep us in bondage. After all, strong black women have to keep it together even if we’re in prison. Well, I know prison was never meant for me so I let my secrets out. They ran from me and into the arms of those who needed to embrace my story to help them release theirs. When I let my secrets loose so too went my soul, and others’, free from the enemy’s lies about who I am and what I’ll never be.

Freedom is sweet when you can speak the truth and not allow what happened define you in a negative light. The future is always bright for believers in Christ, for faith stands and provides penetrating light for needed transparency. This is the case, I believe, with my latest EEW column that begins below on protecting our children from sexual abuse. Please read, glean and offer your insights and questions in the magazine comment section. As always, please feel free to comment here on the blog, too.




She didn’t think anyone would believe her. He told her this, said they would believe it was her fault, that she wanted to play their game, that she would shame her name. So she shrunk in silence, only the tears crying out her pain during their touching game. Maybe the abuse occurred a few times, but she was forever changed.

We have heard this before. Some sexual predator targets a child, our child, and we find out about the abuse long after it stops. Our once outgoing child now seems nervous and scared. Perhaps she doesn’t want to visit with a certain relative, is acting out in school, is sexually active or is chronically depressed. We don’t understand the behavior, then the child finally reveals the unmentionable happened to her. Maybe it was her father, stepfather, uncle, cousin, pastor or his neighbor. Little girls and boys are being sexually abused right in our midst. Somehow some of us don’t think it’s supposed to happen to us. We’re good church folks and this doesn’t happen, shouldn’t be happening, to us. So when the abuse occurs some of us perpetuate the cover up. We don’t want it said that it happened to our family. Then some of us are unknowingly complicit; we sit in silence because we just don’t know what to do. Read the rest at EEW Magazine.

My One Thousand Gifts List

#461-470
Showering and dressing the boys without stress
A meeting that provided much-needed revelation
Having a breakthrough moment with a friend who challenged me to interrupt her to talk about me when she is talking incessantly about herself
Folding all and putting away most of the laundry
A shower before Justus awoke and without interruption from Nate
Devotion time early with Nathaniel
Visiting my grandfather and giving him water and reading John 1 to him
Attending Science Night at Joshua’s school and hearing him say, “I wish we could stay here. I’m loving this.”
All the boys competing then taking turns to kiss Flynn
Carla calling to check on me

Friday Feature: Roundup Twelve

My three Friday Feature posts this month told you about the benefits of my raw food journey and challenged you to choose satisfying hunger above satisfying taste and to make godly food choices. To give you more information about eating raw, satisfying hunger and making godly food choices, here are some links to help you:

Raw Vegan Radio with Steve Prussack

The Garden Diet

The Vegan Food Enthusiast

Love Connection

One Another